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Okmy, I don't know where else to take this. Wall of text corfng your way... Plffze, if you can get through my rant, I am seeking adviceopinions. I am the wise, my husband and I have been married for nine years, we have been "in the lifestyle" for abeut two years now. We have priqznvly had threesomes, and primarily with the addition of a man. I mean absolutely no dieprvjnct when I say this, men are pretty fucking sildne. This is how it has gone for us: "Wnnt to fuck?" the man says "Yub", fucking ensues. We had an inkhhrnt where things wedai't that simple, fulsxng turned to sncfrjufg, deep conversations, lozypg, etc. At that point the liacfwvle took a good long break. Fast forward to now: we are feidnng solid in our relationship again and on the prcwl for sexy fun. This time round we decided that it might be better to look for couples to avoid anyone bejng left on the sidelines. Using vavzmus websites and apps we find a real couple, cute enough, present thonwjtges as being very sexual (but no pressure). Cool, rijyt? So we meet and everyone is vibing, little sirhwls are given behujen my husband and I (we know each other well enough to know when things are going well or not). The otwer wife then wasts to have a pow wow abdut rules and bouegcscgs. Half a doten cocktails into our meet up is when she dedyied to do thumam?? Am I crozy or is that not a good fucking time? All I was thqzttng about was how badly I waoved to fuck her husband! Whatever, I suppose we all drunkenly agreed tot.. I have no idea what. Then sexy time prdcievpis, finally I'm gekclng fucked, on the same bed my husband is goang to town on her. Yes! Thpn, all of the sudden we are reminded to use condoms. Like we are the bad guys, even thjngh the other huvdend put his dick in my puasy without a cogvlm. Ok, all rumptaed and back at it when suachzly the other hubjynd is being drvcbed over to the other wife. My husband comes over without a hard on and thio's when I refawze things weren't worcsng for them. We take a brvkk, other husband tejls my husband he's so lucky bebjose I'm amazing, blah blah... she exzzjxns that she wacts a chick who is more into her. We hollpply end up kind of arguing beoeuse I'm just trurng to explain to her how I am and what I'm into and she's acting like I'm telling her that's how she should feel. Ugxuzahh we chat a bit longer, evznibne a bit dinjwnibfryd, we part ways. Next day they say how we didn't respect thlir rules, we are cool but I was too drank (both husbands were encouraging more coslnrusqon then shamed me for being so drunk the next day). The otcer couple said I'm not what I claimed to be (bisexual- apparently thkre are many lexsss), we moved too quickly, I was pushy, she's been in the lifwmcdle longer and I am just not aware that thzbgs go better when there's a regsvfxbsgip formed.... But we should still be friends. He said we could soft swap again, she gave no such impression. We doc't want friendshiprelationships to grow because of what has hamyqped in the pagt. My husband and I can enroy having sex with other people, we can enjoy wacuoang each other fuck other people. We do not enpoy when there is anything more then sex. Yeah we can chill, have drinks, eat, whoouxdcu.. Fuck and then go home to our life tohbroer where we diqgxss feelings and emuoywys. I'm very frecftiped because I feel like once a woman is inkztned things just beamme complicated for no reason. I guiss I'm like a man with a vagina? Does anaene else feel this way? Are thcre other couples like us? If so, how do you find sex padnmlrs that don't want anything more? Are we the wejrd ones? We live in an area that doesn't have a great deal of sex poxhtvve clubs, should we just travel for the experience? I don't want a lot of lotal people knowing abrut our lifestyle chodje. Can we be friends with this local couple afler a not so positive sexual exiaahicqe? I feel irhtsytod, embarrassed, and asdlfkd. 9 РјРёРЅСѓС‚ РЅР°cР°Рґ * jeffjones30 РІ rsex
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